Advice on tyring to move on with career

Sounds like you are pretty grounded in reality. Sucks doesn’t it. I know a few people trying to change industries and it’s hard.
Congrats on the 3rd kid and I hope his/her medical challenges get resolved.

  1. If you want to move:
    How’s your product design portfolio? Keep doing product projects on the side to showcase your product design skills.
    Keep looking until you find your “ideal” job. Maybe it will take 1 year to find the right fit. There are not a lot of jobs out there and for every job there are dozens and dozens of people applying at different levels and salary requirements.
    Maybe you will have to take a pay cut in order to start over in a different industry/segment. 74K, Junior designer in Arizona is really good.

  2. Develop your packaging career further. Ask for a title promotion. Maybe a salary & job responsibility increase as well.
    Look for jobs at other packaging companies. This might give you a title promotion and salary increase as well in one shot.
    Consider packaging, display & environmental design companies.
    Would you prefer to be a junior Product Designer making 65K or a Lead Packaging Designer/Manager making 80K+. At the end of the day you need to do what’s best for your family.

  3. When making your decision make sure you take into account the following:
    a) Cost of living (primarily mortgage or rent)
    b) Commute. How long will the commute be. Time away from home is very valuable considering you have 3 kids. School and extra curricular activities will demand more of your time as they grow older.
    c) Healthcare Benefits. Since you have a family this will be very important and expensive.
    d) Sometimes the grass is greener on the other side…but so is the water bill.

Good luck.