XP file managent question to improve productivity

Y’all know when you open a doc, or place a file from illustrator or word, or indesign or any windows xp program, you get the ubiquitous “file dialogue box” where on the left you have … wait I’ll put in a picture…

How in tarnation do you set this so that no matter which program you in, it will ALWAYS display the files in date descending order and in detailed view vs. thumbnails. Every time I encounter this box in a program it defaults to a different file view settings.