Living in cali

I have the same requirement. I am lucky to have a 15-30 min commute. Currently I cannot put a price on an additional 2 hrs of commuting. My kids will only get older and have busier schedules…Something about working longer hours just so that I have to hire somebody to take care of my kids after school doesn’t make sense. My wife does the long commute. It would be insane if both of us did it.